Our founder Darren Burn on traveling to the Maldives as a gay man and now gay parent
As the founder and CEO of Out Of Office, travel is not just my profession but my passion. My personal journeys, especially with my partner, shape the ethos of our company: inclusivity, expertise, and luxury tailored to the unique needs of every traveler. One destination that holds a special place in my heart is the Maldives. Its azure waters, pristine beaches, and unparalleled luxury make it a paradise on Earth. However, as a gay man, traveling to a country where homosexuality is not legally recognized brings unique challenges and a nuanced reality.
Navigating the Journey: From Airports to Atolls
Traveling as an LGBTQ+ couple in the Maldives requires careful navigation. Even at the airport, my partner and I often go through immigration separately. While it’s not a legal requirement, it makes the process simpler and avoids unnecessary questions. This is just one of the many small decisions we make to ensure smooth and stress-free travel. In 2025, the Maldives launched a new international terminal which is much more in keeping with other major cities. Trust me when I say that you feel a lot more comfortable and familiar going through this airport than you did at the old one which was essentially just a hut!
But from the moment you board a seaplane to your Maldives resort, the magic of the country takes over. Soaring above endless blue waters, dotted with pristine island atolls, is an unforgettable experience. Even though I’ve been to the Maldives numerous times, I still find myself in awe and pinching myself every single time. Looking down from the seaplane feels like stepping into another world—a world where the beauty of nature is almost surreal. It’s one of life’s greatest highlights and a moment that never fails to take my breath away.
The Joy of Disconnecting: Setting your Out Of Office
There’s something transformative about being on a remote island. As a CEO, switching off is nearly impossible—your business is always on your mind. Yet, the Maldives is the one place where I come closest to achieving true relaxation. Afternoons are often spent lounging on a sunbed by a private pool, indulging in the luxury of an impromptu nap, the sound of gentle waves in the background. It’s a feeling that’s unparalleled—a rare opportunity to pause and savor the simplicity of doing absolutely nothing.
Some days, I even leave my phone behind in the villa, allowing myself to disconnect from the constant hum of emails and notifications. The ability to unplug, even for a few hours, is one of the greatest luxuries of our modern age. And setting your Out Of Office email? That’s a joy in itself—a declaration that for a few precious days, you are fully present in your own life. It’s a ritual I cherish and encourage everyone to embrace at least a few times a year.
The Reality of LGBTQ+ Travel in the Maldives
Despite its idyllic beauty, the Maldives is not officially welcoming to LGBTQ+ travelers. The laws are clear, and caution is always necessary. Yet, I’ve found that the reality on the ground is often more welcoming than the official stance might suggest. Resorts like The Nautilus, Soneva Jani, and Joali Being go out of their way to create safe, inclusive spaces. Their focus on guest privacy and world-class hospitality ensures a welcoming environment for all travelers, regardless of sexual orientation.
That said, it’s important to acknowledge that my position as a travel industry professional provides a layer of privilege. This awareness drives Out Of Office’s commitment to ensuring every client feels safe and supported, with travel plans tailored to their comfort level. For some, the Maldives might not feel like the right choice, and that’s okay. There are equally stunning alternatives like French Polynesia (including Bora Bora), or the Seychelles, where the cultural climate is more openly inclusive.
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Pictured: Soneva Jani and Soneva Fushi have some of the most incredible rooms on the planet.
Crafting Luxury for Every Traveler
The beauty of the Maldives lies not only in its landscapes but in its ability to cater to diverse preferences. The Nautilus offers an unparalleled level of privacy and bespoke experiences, while Soneva Fushi immerses guests in eco-luxury and adventure. Joali Being, with its focus on transformative wellness, is perfect for those seeking rejuvenation. Each resort offers something unique, and our team works tirelessly to match clients with destinations that resonate with their individual travel styles.
As LGBTQ+ family travel continues to grow, we’re forging partnerships with resorts that welcome gay parents and their children with open arms. Inclusivity is at the heart of everything we do, ensuring that every journey is as joyous and liberating as it should be.

Finding Paradise: A Reflection
For me, the Maldives is more than just a destination—it’s a sanctuary. It’s where I find moments of stillness amidst the chaos of running a business. It’s where I remind myself to slow down, breathe, and appreciate the beauty around me. And it’s where I experience the purest form of luxury: time—time to reconnect with myself, my partner, and the world.
At Out Of Office, we believe that travel should be about more than just getting away. It’s about stepping into a world of possibility, where every journey is a celebration of freedom and individuality. Whether you choose the Maldives or another stunning destination, our team is here to help you create memories that will last a lifetime.
For more insights on LGBTQ+ travel to the Maldives, you can read our blog here. Let us guide you to the extraordinary, wherever your journey takes you.
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