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At Out Of Office, providing personalized luxury for lesbian and gay destination weddings is at the heart of what we do best. With same-sex marriage now legalized in a growing number of countries around the globe, we are regularly asked where the best place is to hold a gay wedding abroad.
Here at Out Of Office, we truly understand the world you live in, and the world you want to explore. Our attention to detail, exceptional service and deep understanding of both luxury travel and LGBTQ+ travel make us a fantastic choice for those looking for a travel experience where exclusivity meets inclusivity.
The truth is, there are so many incredible destinations to have your LGBTQ+ destination wedding, and we can help you find that perfect location.
As an exclusive and inclusive luxury travel company, we have arranged ceremonies for many gay couples and LGBTQ+ families in spectacular settings, from adventure-packed South Africa to romantic Santorini. Whether you would like us to arrange everything for your big day or just need a little assistance, we can help you host the gay destination wedding you've always dreamed of. From finding your ideal venue to coordinating your formal ceremony and organizing wedding photographs, let us minimize the stress so you can fully enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime experience.
A gay destination wedding is perfect if you're seeking a more intimate and personal celebration. However, with laws regarding same-sex marriage evolving worldwide, it's essential to know where your marriage will be legally recognized and where it might only be symbolic. As inclusive luxury travel experts, we can guide you through the legal aspects of gay weddings abroad, civil unions, and symbolic ceremonies, offering the best gay wedding packages tailored to your destination—whether that’s a beach ceremony in Mexico’s Riviera Maya or a traditional Polynesian wedding in Bora Bora. Many couples also opt to combine their wedding with a romantic gay honeymoon to make the most of their time away.
To discuss your dream wedding, contact a member of our expert team today.
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Planning a wedding abroad can be more stressful than planning one at home. Depending on how far you intend to travel, you may not have seen the venue in person before arriving—and there can be a gap between the image you had in mind and the reality on the ground.
It’s important to be clear about what you want from your wedding. Do you want your marriage to be legally recognized back home, or would you prefer to get legally married in the US before traveling and then have a symbolic beach ceremony abroad?
There are a lot of questions to consider, and when planning a gay wedding, it’s important to be aware of the legal requirements involved. We’ve planned many same-sex weddings in destinations around the world and are always expanding our portfolio. Submit an inquiry, and one of our expert team members will reach out to schedule an initial consultation and get things rolling.
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Planning a wedding can be time-consuming and stressful, so why not enjoy a relaxing weekend away as a couple before the big day? It’s a great reason to take that short break you’ve always talked about—and let’s be honest, it’s the perfect excuse to book another trip.
In many countries where same-sex marriage isn’t legal, you can still have a beautiful symbolic gay wedding. This typically means having a legal ceremony at home before traveling, followed by a symbolic ceremony abroad in your chosen destination. The beauty of symbolic weddings is the flexibility—they open up a wide range of destinations where you’ll still receive a warm welcome, even without full legal recognition.
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While same-sex marriage hasn’t been legalized in Aruba, it remains an inviting destination for a symbolic beach wedding. Imagine exchanging vows at sunset on a serene Caribbean beach, surrounded by warm sea breezes and turquoise water. Spend your days relaxing at a luxury resort, snorkeling in clear waters, and savoring Caribbean cuisine. In the evening, enjoy a stroll along Aruba’s white-sand shores. For a little adventure, head to Arikok National Wildlife Park and dive into its natural pools.
Italy, one of the world’s most romantic destinations, allows civil partnerships but not full same-sex marriage. It’s still a top choice for symbolic gay weddings, with iconic backdrops in cities like Venice, Florence, and Rome. Say your vows along the quiet canals of Venice, ride a gondola through its cobblestone streets, and toast with a classic Italian aperitivo. In Florence, you’ll be surrounded by Renaissance architecture, perfect for a laid-back and stylish celebration. End your journey in Rome—the Eternal City—home to famous landmarks like the Colosseum and the Trevi Fountain. Savor gelato, explore ancient ruins, and celebrate your love in true Italian style.
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Bora Bora is one of French Polynesia’s most iconic islands—and for good reason. Known for its stunning overwater villas, vibrant lagoons, and pristine beaches, it’s the perfect setting for your same-sex wedding. The legal ceremony typically takes place at city hall, often officiated by the mayor, followed by a traditional Polynesian symbolic ceremony at sunset on the beach. To legally marry in Bora Bora, you’ll need to complete a marriage application and provide copies of your passports, certified birth certificates, and single-status affidavits.
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For couples planning a gay or lesbian wedding in New Zealand, you must complete a Notice of Intended Marriage at least three days before the ceremony. Birth certificates may also be required. Whether you’re getting married in Auckland, Queenstown, or another location, be sure to check the current laws and requirements before you travel.
For same-sex couples planning a gay wedding in Argentina, you’ll need to visit the civil registry office at least ten business days before your official ceremony date. Passports and blood tests from a local hospital are required. If applicable, divorce or death decrees may also be needed.
If you’re planning a gay wedding in Brazil, you can have a fully legal ceremony. You’ll need to complete an application form and provide copies of your passports, original birth certificates, and declarations of civil and single status. Additionally, your intent to marry must be published in a local newspaper at least 15 days before the ceremony.
In Iceland, you can have a fully legal same-sex wedding ceremony. You’ll need to provide your birth certificates, a valid passport, and a certificate of marital status (issued no more than eight weeks before the ceremony). An application form must also be submitted to the District Magistrate of Reykjavik, and two witnesses must sign the form to certify your ability to marry. If applicable, divorce or death decrees are also required.
Same-sex marriage is legal in Malta, and the country has ranked number one on ILGA-Europe’s Rainbow Index for eight consecutive years (through 2024), making it one of the most LGBTQ+-friendly destinations for your wedding. To marry legally in Malta, you’ll need to present two documents to the registrar: a Certificate of No Impediment (CNI), if available, and a statutory declaration.
To get married in the United Kingdom, you’ll need a few essential documents: a valid passport, birth certificate, and a certificate of marital status. This certificate confirms your legal freedom to marry and must be issued within a specific time frame before the wedding. If either partner has been previously married, you’ll also need to provide divorce decrees or death certificates, as applicable.
Same-sex marriage is legal in over 35 countries worldwide, including the United States, Canada, most of Western Europe, Australia, New Zealand, Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Taiwan, South Africa, and more. Several countries also recognize overseas same-sex marriages even if they don’t perform them locally.
Absolutely! We specialize in creating meaningful symbolic ceremonies, even in destinations where legal marriage may not be available. Many couples choose to handle the legal paperwork in their home country and then celebrate with a personalized ceremony in their dream destination. Some of the best destinations for symbolic LGBTQ+ ceremonies include Thailand and French Polynesia.
We recommend planning your destination wedding at least 12-18 months in advance. Popular LGBTQ+-friendly venues in destinations like Mykonos and Puerto Vallarta book up quickly. This timeline also allows international guests sufficient time to arrange travel and accommodations.
Yes! We offer customizable wedding and honeymoon packages designed specifically for LGBTQ+ couples. Our packages can be tailored to destinations worldwide, from private beach ceremonies in Thailand to elegant château celebrations in France. We specialize in creating seamless experiences that combine your perfect ceremony with an unforgettable honeymoon journey.
Our wedding packages typically include venue selection, ceremony planning, LGBTQ+-friendly vendor coordination, accommodation arrangements, transportation, welcome events for guests, and honeymoon planning. We pride ourselves on working with vendors who have demonstrated their commitment to equality and celebrating all love stories. Each package is customized to your specific desires, budget, and guest count.
We want to ensure you have the best experience with us so we’ll keep working on your itinerary until perfect. You will have your own personal dedicated member of our team who will help build a trip that is bespoke to you.
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